Memory Verse
James 1:22 “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.”
Introduction
St. James begins to offer some valuable pastoral wisdom right after we have focused on dealing with trials and tribulations.
“Know this, my beloved brethren. Let every man be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger, for the anger of man does not work the righteousness of God.” (James 1: 19-20) When I think about it, the pressures and stress of trials usually make me very slow to listen and faster to speak. There used to be a psychologist friend of mine who said that anger is always the end emotion of something much deeper going on in our mind. Sometimes it can just be a fear of losing someone or as explained by St. James, it can be the result of a trial we are going through. These can be financial, health-related, relationship-related, work-related, family- related—the list of stressors can be unlimited in this earthly existence.
During times of trial (tension), we tend not to listen well because we are formulating in our head what we want to say while our conversation partner is trying to be heard. Many communication problems can be traced to tension which can lead to anger, also. St. James teaches us that as a Christian, we should be meek with a disposition that is receptive to learning as opposed to anger. Anger can carry with it an attitude that is demanding.
In addition, James tells us to do two things:
- Put away filth and evil from your life and
- Welcome the word that has been planted in you.
He further warns us (just like a good pastor, does) that we must not fall into the deadly pattern of deception which is hearing the word of God but not doing it. When we hear the word but don’t do it, we are deceiving ourselves and treating the Word as if it were powerless. “For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and spirit, of joints and marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” (Hebrew 4: 12)
Next time: Points to Ponder
@Home Work:
- When it comes to anger, in what areas are you typically vulnerable?
- When talking to an acquaintance, can you tell if he/she is really listening to you? How do you feel when you know he/she is not?
- Is there an area of your life that you find yourself repeatedly saying, “I really need to do something about that?” What do you think is keeping you from doing it?
- How does society foster the idea that anger will achieve the desired goal in one’s life?
- Why are we particularly susceptible to anger when faced with trials?